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Men are from Mars Women are from Venus


That's the clever saying expressing how worlds apart men and women are. Now I'm not about to sit here and pretend that women are confusing. Because damn it we are! We're emotional, moody, sensitive, and a slue of other things. I can admit that. I have caught myself on numerous occasions over-thinking and over-analyzing EVERYTHING about life. Only to realize that I have done nothing but make myself nauseous. With all of that being said men KILL ME acting as if they are not complicated. Really? Really though? BUT Really though?? Let's be real. You all are just as confused, if not more so at times , than us!

Here is what I mean...you all will go through chutes and ladders, rings of fire, moats, and other dangerous adventures just to get in contact with a female. Once contact has been made and mutual interest has been established you just....poof! Disa-freaking-ppear!! Now I'm patient and understand life happens! I mean I live it..ya dig?! But don't get my hopes all up just to shoot them down because you had forgot you hit me up! I was doing just fine before you put on this front like you wanted to get to know me! But I don't know what I want?! o__O



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I have the tendency to be "friend" material! Every guy I know wants to commend me on how awesome of a friend I'll be and how one magical day I'm going to make some guy extremely happy...and some other BS that I just tune out! Anyways...I will be sitting there listening to their depressing story about the CRAZY girl they have been talking to and how they wish they could find a girl like me! Well that's what they say but when they describe her she sure does sound like me! And no, I'm not being arrogant or cocky or whatever other adjective you like to use I'm being real. Yet they look right past me! I know I am not the only female who has ever had to deal with this. All I'm saying is if that's what you want then go get it. You have to know it's right in front of your face. Don't be scared to actually have what you deserve. -__-

So this rant can go on and on and on! But I will graciously end it now! You see the only point I'm trying to make is: Fellas yall are just as confused!! You may think you're "oh-so-simple" but you're not! We need to band together and help each other out. That way we can have it all figured out!
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