Say No....to being a Bridezilla

I was granted the chance to see part of Kim Kardashian's wedding! -__-

Let me tell you that it was awful! I honestly could care less about their wedding. I'm glad they found each other and hope that have many loving and successful yeas together. No, really I do! I know how divorce affects everyone involved so I would wish that on anyone. With all if that being said I couldn't help but being in a constant state of annoyance the entire 2 hours!!

Mostly because of Kim. I can not stand women who claim that a wedding is theirs!!! Really?? There is no groom involved. His voice and special touches don't matter?! Then why are you marrying him? I don't think that I could ever treat my future husband like that. To spend the rest of our lives together and know that I completely excluded him from such a big moment in our lives saddens me. Why would you want to do that to someone? Especially someone you claim to love.

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Remember when I said that this blog was going to be a space where I discussed and highlighted my PhD journey? Now, remember when that didn't happen? Getting a doctorate is HARD, y'all. And, you may being saying, "duh, girl! We know!" but this journey was one of the most difficult journeys I have ever been on and because of that fact, I didn't have or make the time to update this blog. It simply wasn't a priority and I was trying to stay afloat for the past four years. So, let's recap a few things. I proposed my dissertation on October 5, 2019, started collecting data in January, defended my dissertation on April 19, 2019, and graduated on May 2, 2019!! So, now that all of the milestones have been mentioned, and I have more time to dedicate to other types of writing, I'm going to highlight my journey retrospectively. Sit back and get ready to hear all of the academic tea!

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