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This is a mans world. Is it? Really?

I LOVE SPORTS!! More specifically Football and Basketball! But love all the same! When I say I mean love!! I'm not watching just to see men in tight pants or how good someone looks today! Granted I'm a female and at times this does happen but I honestly have a love for the game!

My goal is to work in college football and depending on how ambitious I'm feeling potentially coach college football! I love it that much. I'm not able to describe the natural high I get from watching it on television, or being on the field, or just even talking about it! It feels so natural! I can't imagine doing anything else with the rest of my life! Needless to say it drives me BONKERS to hear guys degrade women as if they have no idea what they're talking about! Really though? It's that hard for you to believe that during the fall, on every Saturday morning in high school I woke up early to watch ESPN (because if you didn't know College Day was on) only then to pick a spot on the couch and watch every single game that came on that day! Can you not fathom that I actually know all the positions! Really though? That's how we're playing! I just want to be taken seriously! I would like my opinion to be heard when discussion about the NBA playoffs are taking place. Or to be heard when discussion about Rich Rod happen (i.e. I have never doubted that he was a great coach but I knew his style and the timing were not right for MI. Want to know more just ask me.)

I know have a "girly" persona! I like to look and smell nice! I wear Big earrings and get manicures and pedicures! My hair is always done and my eyebrows are usually arched! But this does not mean that I am illiterate when it comes to the world of sports. And if there's something I don't know I can always just call up my padre who happens to be a record holding line backer from U of M, who played with the Bengals and happened to start in his rookie season! So trust me I have a solid foundation! I bet a few of you young lads wish you could boast that!

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